But let’s be reasonable. All dating is awkward—for those outside and inside the church. Just just just How could it never be? On a very first date, you stare at each and every other putting on the I-wonder-if-this-will-go-anywhere eyeglasses. Unanswered concerns swirl around in your thoughts anxiety that is causing. The strain makes communication like swimming through gravel. Does he just like me? Do I she contact me to go out again like her? Will? Am we drawn to him? Exactly what are the skeletons in the cabinet? Does she would you like to inhabit my state? Does he want young ones? It is tough to calmly stay static in the current if your mind is within the future.